Choosing the Right Funeral Flowers for a Man: A Thoughtful Guide
When it says goodbye to a husband, father, brother, or dear friend, choosing the right floral tribute can feel like a daunting task. While traditionally funeral flowers were often seen as delicate or feminine, modern floral design offers a wealth of "masculine" styles that celebrate strength, character, and personality.
At Anastasia Florists in Aberdeen, we believe a funeral arrangement should be as unique as the man it honours. Here is our guide to choosing meaningful and appropriate funeral flowers for a male service.
1. Choosing a Colour Palette
While there are no "rules," certain colours are often chosen for male tributes to reflect strength, peace, and dignity:
- Deep and Rich Tones: Burgundy, crimson, and royal purple (using flowers like Red Roses or Carnations) offer a sense of tradition and respect.
- Cool and Calm: Blue and white is one of our most requested combinations. Blue Irises, Delphiniums, or Eryngium (thistles) paired with white Lilies or Chrysanthemums symbolize peace and tranquility.
- Vibrant and Bold: If he had a "larger-than-life" personality, don't be afraid of bright yellows and oranges. Sunflowers and Gerberas can celebrate a life full of energy and joy.
2. Meaningful Flower Varieties
Every flower carries a message. Here are the most popular choices for men’s arrangements:
- Lilies (White or Calla): The classic symbol of peace and the restored innocence of the soul.
- Roses: Red roses signify deep love; yellow roses represent friendship and loyalty; white roses symbolize reverence.
- Gladioli: Named after the Latin word gladius (sword), these symbolize strength of character and moral integrity.
- Chrysanthemums: In many cultures, these represent "truth" and are a sturdy, respectful choice for masculine tributes.
- Thistles: A wonderful nod to Scottish heritage and a symbol of resilience.
3. Personalized Specialty Tributes
For a truly unique farewell, many families now choose a "Specialty Tribute" that reflects the hobbies or passions of the deceased. At Anastasia Florists, we specialize in handcrafted bespoke designs, including:
- Sports Themes: Club logos (like an Aberdeen FC wreath), footballs, or dartboards.
- Hobbies: Fishing boats, guitars, or even a floral "pint" or bottle of his favourite drink.
- Transport: Floral cars, tractors, or anchors for those with a love for the sea. These tributes often provide a point of comfort and a smile for mourners, celebrating a life well-lived.
4. Types of Arrangements
Depending on your relationship with the deceased, different styles may be appropriate:
- Casket Sprays: Usually chosen by the immediate family, these sit atop the coffin.
- Standing Sprays & Wreaths: Large, impactful displays often sent by close friends or colleagues.
- Posies and Cushions: Traditional shapes that offer a softer, classic look.
- Hearts: Classic heart shaped funeral tribute
- Letter Tributes: Spelling out "DAD," "GRANDAD," "BRITHER" or a name is a deeply personal way for family to lead the procession.
Final Thoughts
The most important thing to remember is that there is no "wrong" choice when flowers are sent with love. Whether you opt for a traditional white wreath or a vibrant bespoke design shaped like a classic car, the gesture of remembrance is what matters most.
Need help choosing? With over 30 years of experience, our team at Anastasia Florists is here to guide you through this difficult time. We offer handcrafted funeral flowers in Aberdeen with professional, reliable delivery.
Browse our Funeral Collection or Contact Us Today to discuss a custom tribute.
